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Molly Dickens, PhD's avatar

Wow, Allison, this is the perfect build on for my time post! Thank you!

I love how you frame the nuance of work "flexibility". It made me think of the research that shows how even the concept of "flexibility" is gendered.

For partnered, opposite sex couples, comparing the concept of "flexibility" for moms vs dads, the main conclusion was something this:

Scenario 1: mom is a lawyer, dad is a doctor.

Question: "Who's job is more flexible?"

Answer: mom's

Scenario 2: mom is a doctor, dad is a lawyer.

Question: "Who's job is more flexible?"

Answer: mom's

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Anna Rollins's avatar

Wow! This resonates. After my third kid, I left my “flexible job” of 15 years (which I realize now was a job with some flexibility) for a true flexible job (freelance where I set my own hours). I had a hard time understanding my own burnout and exhaustion, especially since I could work so many of my hours on the go. But that was it! I was constantly working, constantly multitasking. Thank you for this piece!

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